CHARACTER COUNTS (12:1–14):
The Lord is
happy with those who are good but condemns the wicked. In looking at verses 1-8, I am struck with a
Proverb that seems to sum up the moral benefits of Godly character, verse 8
says: “A man will be commended according to his insight and
sound judgment, But the one who is of a perverse mind will be despised.”
The word here for “Commended” is halal · to shine (fig. of God's favour); to flash forth light-
We are reminded, once again, that our character shines forth
like light. Character is who we are when
no one is looking. This is about
finding the will of God in our life, seeking Him out- and then doing it. Matthew
Henry says, “Those who
have grace, will delight in the instructions given them. “
Verse
1 ties character in with God’s Potter’s hands:
12 Whoever loves instruction and discipline loves knowledge,
But he who hates reproof and correction is stupid
But he who hates reproof and correction is stupid
What
about you? Do you delight in the
reproofs of the Lord?
Do
you seek His will in your decisions and follow His guidings?
I
have had a revelation, as of late. The Lord
has closed many doors on me and my ambitions.
I pray that my life is a representation of His highest good that is laid
out for me, and that I have the Wisdom to walk there. This prayer, inherently, requires a constant
pruning.
->I have prayed for His will to
be complete in me – yet, I balk when He closes doors. Rejection hurts, even
when I continue walking towards His highest good. I believe, with all of my heart, that He
closes a door because I have prayed to only go through the doors that offer my
highest good ---yet, I weep from the rejection as the doors close on my poor
little face!! Richard Mullins wrote
lyrics for “Hold Me Jesus” that capture this very dichotomy that rattles around
inside of me:
“Surrender
don't come natural to me
I'd rather fight You for something
I don't really want
Than to take what You give that I need
And I've beat my head against so many walls
Now I'm falling down, I'm falling on my knees “
I'd rather fight You for something
I don't really want
Than to take what You give that I need
And I've beat my head against so many walls
Now I'm falling down, I'm falling on my knees “
Finally I fall on my knees, and I accept His will, band-aiding
my heart and knowing He calls me on to different pastures.
Abandoning my will to His call is a daily struggle. In this
season my eyes have been opened and I am grateful for the doors that He closed.
Yesterday, I was hectic trying to do everything:
·
Being
a good wife
·
Being
a good mom
·
Being
a devoted church attendee
·
Being
devoted with tithe, time and talents at church
·
Upholding
an entire internet community
·
Taking
care of my mom
·
Taking
care of my daughter who is still suffering from post-concussive syndrome and a new
diagnosis.
I barreled
through my day, dropping into bed
exhausted. I woke up- exhausted. I had a
breaking point- weeping uncontrollably- I couldn’t do it all. I couldn’t get everyone to all of the Dr
appts and to the Homebound services that my daughter needed, while maintaning
the schedules of the other 2 children at home, art classes, preschool, Senior
classes, internet studies, conferences, and women’s ministry, and loving my
mother well---I was breaking and calling out to the Lord- “Help Me Find BALANCE”.
….and
doors started to close.
…and
I resented it and hurt from the “rejection”. How does He put up with me??
A
few months have gone by now and I find this freedom in living my life as an act
of Worship. I got to keep that which He
wanted and He – so graciously – took what I wasn’t supposed to have – away from
me. I had to let it go. There were parts
of me that wanted to hold on – but, where is the sense in that?
Today
I am amazed at my productivity for Him.
I know me and I know the urge will be back to fill up my calendar again. I pray that this time I listen to the
discerning voice of Wisdom as she walks with me and the Holy Spirit guides me to the
highest calling.
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